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Robert (Bob) L. Janes, Age: 76
The world has lost a beautiful soul. Robert (Bob) L. Janes, 76, Independence, Missouri, passed away on September 30, 2021 at home with his wife Laurie by his side. Bob had been suffering for four years from Lewy Body Dementia with Parkinson’s and became ill from COVID-19 and was unable to recover.

 

Bob was born in 1945 in Kansas City, Missouri to Pauline and Joseph Janes. They preceded him in death along with his sister, Ella Todd, and his brother, Frank Janes. He is survived by his wife, Laurie, his sister, Ruth Busby, his brother, Ralph Janes, his brothers-in-law, Dave Busby and James Todd, his sisters-in-law, Gwen Janes and Ginger Chase, and his many nieces and nephews and their children.

 

Bob was known for his kindness to both people and animals, and his work ethic, working his way through high school at a grocery store. He continued to work his way through college and graduate school as a teaching assistant at the three colleges he attended: The University of Missouri at Kansas City, the University of Missouri at Columbia, and The University of Kansas. Bob had a Master’s degree in Geography and nearly finished his PhD (ABD) in Earth Science. He was asked to present his Master’s thesis, which dealt with previously unmapped sinkholes, at the U.S. Geological Society’s National Conference in Kansas City, Missouri, which he did. He also had an extensive knowledge of botany and was offered a job with the U.S. Army in vegetation mapping before he decided to enter the field of education.

 

Although Bob was a pacifist, he served his country in Vietnam after being drafted into the army. Luckily, he was never required to commit any acts of violence because it would have gone against his conscience to do so. While there, he earned an Army Commendation Medal for his outstanding service.

 

Bob was hired by Penn Valley Community College in 1978 to work with nursing students and became a full-time Learning Specialist two years later. He worked at Penn Valley for 23 years, retiring in 2001 to care for his wife who was ill. Bob was loved and respected by both his students and his fellow employees for his tireless patience, his incredible wealth of knowledge, and his compassion and non-judgmental concern for others. Countless students told him that they would have dropped out of school had it not been for his guidance and mentorship. Bob was not just an excellent teacher; he was also a role model for everyone who was privileged enough to work with him.

 

Bob was devoted to his family: his parents and his two brothers and two sisters, caring for both of his parents in their older years until they passed. He loved his nieces and nephews as if they were his own children.

 

In 1998, Bob married Laurie (Platt) Janes and they were blessed with nearly 23 years of love, laughter, friendship, and an extraordinary emotional and intellectual connection. He lovingly cared for Laurie during a long illness, and she was honored to be able to care for Bob during his battle with Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinson’s.

 

Besides his family, Bob’s passion was nature and wildlife. He especially loved hiking in the woods and he always said that that was where he felt closest to God. He also loved literature, art, movies, and music, especially rock’n roll, and was an avid Beatles fan.

 

Everyone who knew Bob respected him for his intelligence, selflessness, conscientiousness, compassion, honesty, and integrity. But there was also a brilliantly creative side of Bob that most people didn’t get to see. He was extremely witty and could be silly at the drop of a hat. He could draw, write poetry, and his Mick Jagger impersonation was spot on.

 

Bob had a deeply spiritual nature and believed that all creatures great and small are sacred and should be treated with love and kindness, which he always demonstrated. He was also a great respecter of women and championed women’s rights.

 

Bob will be sorely missed by those who love him, especially his wife, Laurie, whose heart and soul will be forever joined with his.

 

Bob would ask that any donations made in his name go to an organization whose aim is to protect wildlife or the environment, for example, the World Wildlife Fund or The Sierra Club.

 

No services are planned at this time. 

 

These Things You Are To Me

(for Bob)

 

A vein of gold in solid rock,

Ursa Major, constant and true,

The roots of an oak spreading deep in the earth,

The limitless sky with its treasure of blue.

 

A windswept marsh teeming with life,

Two strong hands building a fire,

The doors of a church standing open to all,

The flight of a bird soaring higher and higher.

 

Laurie Janes

 

“The presence of your absence is everywhere.“ Edna St. Vincent Millay

Additional Service:
No Services Planned

Condolences

Jillian Hinrichs Oct 21, 2021

Cousin ,Kansas City ,Missouri

I am so sad you are now without him, but also so very glad you found each other and had so many years together. I only met him a few brief times, but he was gracious and kind, and his love for you shone brightly. If he had still been strong and healthy I would mourn his loss more, but he has moved on to a better place, and you will be with him again someday. In the meantime I am sure he would want for you what I also want for you…that one day you may find contentment and happiness again. Live your life so that you will have new stories to tell him!

Jennifer Shinn Oct 21, 2021

Friend and Care Taker ,Overland Park ,Kansas

For the world has lost a great man and the heavens gained an angle. I got to cate for Bob in his early stages of his Dementia. I always walked in and his smile was so radiant it lit the entire Room. We shared stories and always were singing Beatles songs. His moves were amazing on the dance floor. During some of his roughest times he could turn to me and smile and see the glimmer of hope and happiness. I listened as he would just talk even if it was just about random things. His wife was the brightest spot of his life and he made sure everyone knew that. For my heart is heavy for Laurie and the extended family my heart is also grateful in knowing that his arrival in heaven had to be one for the records. He will be missed by so many.

Shelley Haskins Oct 23, 2021

Cousin ,Plano ,Texas

This was a beautiful tribute to your husband. Your love has always been apparent in your words and actions. I admire you for the strength and devotion you have shown through all of the troubles you had to face. You were both blessed with having each other. That kind of love endures in your heart forever. I wish I could be there to comfort and support you in some small way. Know that I send my love and that you are in my thoughts and continued prayers. May you find comfort, peace and happiness in your memories of your wonderful husband.

Cherie A. Peterson Oct 23, 2021

Long Time Friend ,Portland ,Oregon

Laurie, This is a really beautiful tribute to your beloved Bob. What a one-in-a-million men he was. I love his view and treatment of all creatures great and small, his support of women and egalitarian stance, his pacifism, and his silliness. I love that he lit up a room, which is clear from this picture of the precious two of you. Your two souls found one another and it was magic and heaven sent. I spoke with Bob on the phone for about an hour before he got ill and he was just wonderful. We spoke so easily as if we had been old friends. He changed so many lives and was just one of those very special people who cared instinctively about all others. I yearn to see his Mick Jagger impersonation and am so glad just to picture it. Indeed, the presence of his absence is everywhere. Bless you and all your lifesaving caregivers for your tireless and loving care of Bob. You are loved mightily and your loss is as huge as your love for him. My sister Sue and her husband Forest, who is very much like Bob in all those great ways, have been caring about you and Bob afar for years. They send their deep love and concern for your prodigious loss. We all are thrilled that you had and will always have your soulmate close to your heart, Laurie. You are one of the lucky ones. Many people never experience such love and closeness in their lives. Love, Cherie

Leslie Hancock Feb 03, 2022

Family friend ,Dickson ,Tennessee

I had the privilege of caring for Bob right after COVID began. He will always have a special place in my heart. My prayers go out to Laurie that she has the strength to venture this world on her own. May God and all his angels be watching over her as they welcome Bob into their kingdom. I’m blessed to have been given the opportunity to get to know you both. My love goes out to you!