Obituaries detail

Alexander Garrett DeFord, Age: 42
Apr 01, 1982 - Oct 18, 2024

Alexander Garrett DeFord, 42, of Raytown, Missouri, passed away unexpectedly Friday, October 18, 2024.

 

Alex was born April 1, 1982, in Jefferson City,  Missouri to Paul and Terrie DeFord.  After graduating from Lee's Summit High School in 2000, Alex worked as a heavy equipment machinist and for Shamrock Cabinet, Co. He was also licensed as a private security officer through the KCPD.  He overcame health challenges and became an inspiration to those around him. He dedicated his life to fun, love, hugs and kisses. 

 

He was preceded in death by his father Paul DeFord.  He is survived by his life partner and best friend, Wendy; mother Terrie DeFord; children Paul and Mark and bonus children Jonathan and Molly; siblings Kyle (Jill) DeFord and Kathleen (Nic) Schrader; nephew Brecken and niece Leena Schrader. He also leaves behind many family members and friends who will miss him dearly.

 

Alex was a huge KC Chiefs fan. He loved going to the zoo and was an avid walker. Alex never met a stranger. He was always willing to help anyone who needed it. More than anything else, Alex loved his family. His children were his world. He loved taking care of Wendy and the children and continued to do just that until the moment he left this world, way too soon. 

 

Services  will be held at a later date.

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Condolences

Mary Ann Lee Oct 30, 2024

I know I've already said this, but I can't even begin to express how sorry I am for all of Alex's family. I will miss hearing him say, "Hi darlin', as he walked by my house everyday to get his boys from the bus stop. He always had something nice to say and he will never be forgotten. ❤️

Gary Putthoff Oct 30, 2024

Alex is a very special person. He has a heart of gold, I was very lucky to be part of his life, as he opened his heart and invited me in to have his kids call me, Papa. He will be missed greatly, for his wit his humor and the love that he spread. A very intelligent person who could talk about subjects and current events and be surprisingly so well informed. His mom has been my significant other for over a decade now and Alex has been like a son to me. He has helped me on various projects and other family members who have made statements like he is such a hard worker. Love and miss you, Alex!