Judith Ann Finney Lowe, Age: 86

Judith Ann Finney Lowe, age 86, passed away, January 14, 2025, in Leawood, Kansas.

 

She was born in Jefferson City, Missouri, to Chester and Ruth Finney, on April 10, 1938.

 

Judith was known to family and friends to be loving and to have had a great sense of humor and wit. 

 

Judith was a dental hygienist when her best friend set her up on a blind date with John Lowe.  They married in 1967 and had their daughter Gretchen in 1970.  Life with the Lowes was filled with adventurous camping trips, summers of gardening, 4th of July parties, and lots of laughter & fun.  Judith was always the one to organize and keep our family running smoothly.  After John retired, John and Judith traveled in their Airstream trailer. They enjoyed time in Florida, Arizona, Montana, Alaska, Canada, and many places in between. 

 

In her last ten years Judith developed Alzheimer's.   She lost track of time, she lost the ability to care for herself, but she never lost her loving spirit and sense of humor.  Her positive attitude is an example our family hopes we can continue to live out in memory of her. 

 

Judith is preceded in death by her parents; her second mother, Geraldine Finney; and her brother Robert Finney.

 

Judith is survived by her husband, John; her daughter and son-in law, Doug and Gretchen Mensendiek, her grandchildren: Katelyn, Elizabeth, and Adam Mensendiek, and a loving extended family.

 

A family memorial gathering will be held at a later date.

 

In lieu of flowers, the family prefers memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s Association  Alzheimer's Association | Donate to Fight Alzheimer's Disease or a charity of your choice.

Services

Additional Service: Services at Later Date

Condolences

Nancy Adams Jan 17, 2025

Judith friend for over 50 years ,Fort Smith ,Arkansas

Judith and I met as dental hygienists in the St. Louis area. We were in each other’s weddings - in fact John was a friend of my husband Jerry and introduced them!! Judith and I were very close all these years and I will miss our phone calls that we had these past few years! We loved each other like the sisters we never had! God bless her and also dear John who was always a wonderful husband and a great caregiver too!!

Jerry Adams Jan 17, 2025

Friend for 60 years ,Fort Smith ,Arkansas

Judith and John have been our best friends for 60 years. The 4 of us met when Judith and Nancy lived in University Park Apartments in Florissant MO, and we’ve been close ever since. How could we forget the annual July 4 BBQs and Badminton in their back yard, or the unforgettable flight to Hawaii and cruise of the Islands on the USS Independence. Our world won’t be the same without you, so rest in peace old friend till we all meet again. Jerry Adams

Chuck Jan 18, 2025

Nephew ,Cincinnati ,Ohio

AUNT JUDY,I LOVE YOU, ALWAYS DID ALWAYS WILL,YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR WAS A GUIDING LIGHT TO ME..SO MANY GREAT MEMORIES,YOU WILL BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN, UNCLE JOHN...YOU ARE THE BEST, THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU. AND TO GRETCHEN AND DOUG AND KIDS..LOVE YOU TOO, CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN... CHUCK

LOYCE Jan 18, 2025

Collage friend ,STL ,Missouri

Please Accept my Sympathy. Although I haven’t been in touch with Judith in recent years She has always been in “ My❤️‼️ As a college friend from Jefferson City who taught A girl from 6th Street in downtown STL “” NO . DO NOT END A SENTENCE WITH “” AT “ “‼️‼️ Judith was a Bridesmaid for me. We did stay in the years Lowe’s lived in STL & enjoyed the 4th of July party ( mentioned by the Adam’s ( see above ) Unfortunately I did not know of Judith’s Alzheimer’s 🥵🥵 My SINCEREST SYMPATHY TO ALL THE FAMILY

Darrell & Lisa Cooper Jan 29, 2025

"If you could see me now, I'm dancing on streets of gold." Judith and John played an enormous role in my life. As many of you know, my childhood was challenging until my grandparents found me and brought me to live with them. Judith and John showed me so much love, a love that is beyond words. I will miss her deeply, but I am confident she is in a better place, and one day we will be reunited. John and Gretchen, thank you for sharing her with me. I love you all very much and am praying for your family. With love, Coop and Lisa