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Ted Allan Phillips, Age: 73
May 31, 1951 - Feb 09, 2025

Due to weather the service has been postponed to NEXT WEEK: 

Wednesday, February 26th! 

 

Ted Allan Phillips, 73, finished the race peacefully at home, surrounded by family, on Sunday, February 9, 2025.

Ted was born on May 31, 1951, to Jack and Edith Phillips in Kansas City, Missouri. He grew up actively involved in the Boy Scouts of America alongside his father and brother in Troop 288, earning his Eagle Scout rank and being honored as Warrior Small Far Away Hawk in the Tribe of Mic-O-Say. He attended Oak Park High School, where he met the love of his life, Kathleen VanBebber. Their first unofficial date was on February 9, 1968, and they were rarely seen apart  for the next 57 years. They both graduated in 1969 and married on July 10, 1971, at the Gladstone Church of Christ.

Ted’s love of automobiles began at a young age, often leaving Kathy to watch as he meticulously cleaned car parts. On April 1, 1977, he opened his first automobile repair station, selling gas for Texaco. He remained self-employed in the automotive industry for the rest of his life. Running his own business from the age of 26 meant long hours and plenty of stress, but Ted firmly believed that "the harder you work, the luckier you get." His dedication blessed his family in countless ways.

A man of faith, Ted was baptized at the Gladstone Church of Christ in 1970, where he remained a devoted member and servant. Over the years, he served as a Joy Bus captain, a deacon, and, beginning in 2002, an elder—a role he held through the church's transition to the Heartland Church of Christ and until his passing. 

Ted was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He and Kathy were blessed with four children, nine grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. He took an active role in their lives—helping with Scouts, coaching softball and basketball, and attending countless band concerts, theatrical performances, and sporting events. He enjoyed traveling with his family, anywhere from tropical beaches and the Holy Lands with Kathy to ball tournaments and Branson with the grandkids, spending time on the lake with the Hudkins, and grilling the best steaks in town. 

Ted’s life was filled with more than its fair share of accidents, injuries, and illnesses - even surviving a hurricane- yet he faced every challenge with resilience. He lived by the words he instilled in his children: “Life’s not fair” and “Don’t do half a job.” No matter what he endured, he fought valiantly and with a positive attitude and unwavering faith.

Ted had a strong personality, but a soft heart. He was generous, always assuming the best in people and offering guidance, mentorship, and support. Kathy often joked that he’d get to heaven before her because of his unwavering trust in others. There was nothing he couldn’t fix, and he was always ready to lend a hand. He was meticulous in everything he did, but always moved at his own pace. Kathy affectionately called him "the turtle," always moving forward steadily but surely. His family was his greatest love, even risking his own safety to rescue the Sally doll Lindsay dropped in a rapid cold river. His family will continue to enjoy gathering around their fire pit on their large swings, a family building project Ted proudly oversaw during COVID.

Ted was preceded in death by his parents, C. Jack and Edith Phillips, and his brother, Jack Phillips. He leaves behind his beloved wife of 53 years, Kathy; his children, Lenaira and Brandon Day, Russell and Kelli Phillips, Lauren Phillips, and Lindsay and Jestin Mann; his grandchildren, Steffen, Keaton, Aundria, and Harrison Day; Molly and Ty Pratt; Rhett and Vivian Phillips; Hank, Sally, and Teddy Mann; and his great-grandchildren, Layla, Willow, and Marlee Jo Day, and Daisy Pratt. He is also survived by his sisters, Pam (Marc) Rowe and Jensine (Dan) Kinate; his sister-in-law, Dona Phillips-Proffitt (Jim Proffitt);  his beloved cousin Rick (Reva) Lichty; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and countless friends he considered family.

A Celebration of Life for Ted will be held at Heartland Church of Christ, 6120 NW Prairie View Road, KCMO 64151,  on Wednesday, February 26. Visitation will begin at 4:30 PM, followed by a service at 6:00 PM. During the service, there will be an opportunity to share memories or thoughts about Ted, and we warmly invite anyone who wishes to speak to take part. 

If you would like to make any donation in Ted’s name, please consider  La Palma Christian School (venmo @lenaira-day_LPCS or checks made to LPCS and given to Lenaira)
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Additional Service:
Visitation
Location:
Heartland Church of Christ
Address:
6210 NW Prairie View Rd
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64151
Date of Service:
Feb 26, 2025
Time of Service:
4:30 pm
Additional Information:

A Celebration of Life for Ted will be held at Heartland Church of Christ, 6120 NW Prairie View Road, KCMO 64151,  on Wednesday, February 26. Visitation will begin at 4:30 PM, followed by a service at 6:00 PM. During the service, there will be an opportunity to share memories or thoughts about Ted, and we warmly invite anyone who wishes to speak to take part. 

If you would like to make any donation in Ted’s name, please consider  La Palma Christian School (venmo @lenaira-day_LPCS or checks made to LPCS and given to Lenaira)
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Memorial Service
Location:
Heartland Church of Christ
Address:
6210 NW Prairie View Rd
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64151
Date of Service:
Feb 26, 2025
Time of Service:
6:00 pm
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Condolences

Carol Poland (Welty) Feb 13, 2025

Neighbor ,Weston ,Missouri

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of another member of the Woodland Gang. My prayers go out to all who loved him.

The Morrow’s; Rob, Kathleen, Zayne, & Blake Feb 13, 2025

Friends ,Parkville ,Missouri

Our family met Ted around 10 years ago. His grandson (Harrison Day) and our son Blake played Baseball together. You could definitely see how much he cared for his family, but also others around him. Our families shared many great experiences together because of baseball and the many different places we traveled. One thing that really stuck out to us was his love of people, and his calm, gentle nature. Many prayers from our family to yours, Ted will be greatly missed. The Morrow’s

David and Cheri Crowe Feb 13, 2025

Friends, Brother & Sister ,New Caney (Houston) ,Texas

This hurts our hearts to know you are hurting. Holding many memories and some regrets. We had hoped to come see you here in our retirement but will wait to see you there. Ted, if you come across a "young blonde girl" there, let her know we are still coming. Kathy, I always think of you and Ted when we eat Cheri's famous "stoup". Prayers and love to you all.

Brian and Linda McCoy Feb 13, 2025

Employee/ very close friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

We were so very sorry to hear of the passing of our very dear friend Ted Phillips. Our prayers and thoughts go out to his wonderful family whom he loved dearly. Ted was a great man he had compassion for everyone. He helped us out paying My husband Brian for 4 months. While he was in the hospital for 6 weeks and out of work trying to Gain his strength back when he contracted Covid. He was always there for anybody when they needed him. The world has lost a very very bright light who shined for the world to see. A great, wonderful man. He will be missed by all of us. Rest in peace our brother in Christ we love you!

Larry Goe Feb 13, 2025

Friend ,Liberty

Such a great man with a great living legacy. Ted was always joking and could infect others with his joy. Solid Christian man which I respect. To Kathy and the family- thanks for sharing Ted as I know I happen to be better off knowing him. Peace

Kim Kaissling Feb 13, 2025

Forever friend ,Edmond ,Oklahoma

Kathy and Family, David and I hold so many wonderful memories close to our hearts as we remember our early years as young couples at the Gladstone church. You and Ted were so much fun, sharing your thoughts and lives with us as we began our journey as young families. I loved Ted’s voice and his kind of dry sense of humor and his laugh! He always had a word of encouragement and practical thoughts to share. Together, you and Ted showed others how to have fun together, and as a family. I will always smile when I remember Ted.We love you guys, and will be praying for you all. Kim

Rick and Susie Keesee Feb 13, 2025

Friend ,KANSAS CITY ,Missouri

So Sorry for your loss Kathy, Ted Was A Great Guy..

Kimberly Green Bode Feb 13, 2025

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of Ted. From my earliest memories, I have always looked up to him. His warmth, humor, and gentle spirit made such a lasting impact. He will be missed more than words can express. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Sher Wilde Feb 15, 2025

Friend of Pam Rowe ,Lake Waukomis ,Missouri

As a longtime friend of Pam's, I know how much she loves her family. My husband Ian and I are so sorry for the loss of such a cherished husband, father and brother. We wish blessings on all of you as you endure this sad time and hope that your future is filled with the golden memories of times you shared.

Michael (Mike) & Karen Hicks Feb 17, 2025

Friend and business associate ,Roach ,Missouri

I knew Ted and Kathy for over 50 Years. I remember their wedding, and leaving in his Corvette. I asked him how he in got into the automotive industry when he got his first Texaco station. He said to me why are you looking for a job! That started our work relationship. I know he was very proud and happy when Russ joined him at work. He was proud of all of his children! Kathy my thoughts are with you! He will be missed very much!

Sam & Dena Desue Feb 24, 2025

Brothers in Christ ,Portland ,Oregon

Kathy and the Phillips Family, Dena and I send our deepest condolences to each of you! As we celebrate the life of Ted, I am mourning him with you in this trying time. Our hearts go out to you and your family! Ted, we will miss your wisdom, kindness, and unwavering faith. Your legacy of love and service will forever remain within our hearts. We look forward to seeing you again in heaven. Until then, may your memory be a blessing to all of us! We love you! Sam & Dena Desue

Charri & Paul Myers Feb 24, 2025

Dear friends ,Kansas City

We have shared life! We raised each of our 4 kids together. We have grown up together. Gone through many of life’s experiences together. As we joined one of the best clubs EVER! The Grandparents Club! Our lives became busier doing things with our kids kids. Our lives have been made richer, more spiritual , more fun and loving as we have journeyed through this life sharing memories . Ted was such a strong , faithful servant . He has won his crown! As we begin this different journey, there is confidence and peace knowing we will see Ted on the other side. Kathy, you have been the best caregiver for Ted! These last several decades have been very challenging and you have been an excellent advocate, student and caregiver. My prayer is GOD reveals a new purpose for you. Ted adored you and your children. That has always been very evident! Our heartfelt prayers to all the family. Charri & Paul