Obituaries detail

Patricia Ann O'Connell

January 8, 1941-April 24, 2025

 

 

On April 24, 2025, Patricia Ann O’Connell, beloved wife and mother, passed away at the age of 84.  Patricia was born on January 8, 1941, in Bradgate, Iowa to Glenn and Pauline Dailey, and raised in Rolfe, Iowa.  After graduating from Rolfe High School, she attended the Mercy School of Nursing in Des Moines, Iowa.  In Des Moines, she met her future husband, Michael "Mike" J. O’Connell, a young crop insurance agent, at a dance.  They married on June 22, 1963, at St. Margaret Catholic Church in Rolfe, and remained happily married for over 55 years until Mike’s passing in 2021.

 

 

In 1964, they welcomed their son, Patrick J. O’Connell, followed by daughters Mary C. O’Connell and Jane A. O’Connell.  While the family moved frequently in the 1960s and early 1970s due to Mike’s career, they built their dream home in Leawood, Kansas in 1977 and Patricia resided there until 2021 when she moved to Lawrence, Kansas to be closer to her daughter, Mary.  She loved traveling and marveled at the places she visited. Her children all inherited her love of music.  She was particularly fond of Willie Nelson, The Mavericks, and The Pogues.  She loved dancing with Mike. She and Mike would often dance around the kitchen to their favorite songs.

 

 

Most of all, she loved her family and was an extraordinary mother and grandmother.

 

 

Patricia was preceded in death by her husband and son. She is survived by daughter and son-in-law Mary O'Connell and Steven Hill, daughter and son-in-law Jane O'Connell and Douglas Schulte, daughter-in-law Laura O’Connell, sister Karen Widestrom, brother Richard Dailey, and her beloved grandchildren Ellen O'Connell, Joseph O'Connell, Juliana Hill, Zachary Hill, Veronica Hill, and Gavin O'Connell-Schulte.

 

 

No services are planned at this time. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to Lawrence, Kansas’ Visiting Nurses Association (https://kansasvna.org/).

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Condolences

Ann Marie Foster May 01, 2025

Friend ,Lawrence ,Kansas

I’m so deeply sorry at the loss of one of the most amazing people. She was such a wonderful Mom and Grandma. She always had a twinkle in her eyes and warm love in her heart. I promise to wear my hair curly and think of her. My heart is heavy for your loss.

Karen Widestrom May 01, 2025

Sister ,Eagle Grove ,Iowa

O ‘Connell family Remembering all the fun and great times we have had over the years. With much love and deepest condolences. Your sister , Keg

Katie Widestrom-Landgraf May 02, 2025

Niece ,Minneapolis ,Minnesota

Just when I think Aunt Pat couldn't be more amazing I discovered she loved the Pogues :-). I will miss her sense of humor and her sweetness. Sending you all so much love.

Rosemary Christine Davis May 02, 2025

Niece ,Spirit Lake ,Iowa

What a lovely picture of Aunt Pat. I hope her and Mike are dancing in heaven together. She will be missed but know she is happy being with her boys. It’s us on earth that are sad. May her spirit and love live on in all of us.