Obituaries detail

Charles Brent Bertram, Age: 69
Jun 17, 1956 - Sep 13, 2025

Charles Brent Bertram was born on June 17, 1956, at Tinker Air Force Base in Midwest City, Oklahoma.  He graduated from Russell County High School, then attended Eastern Kentucky University, where he earned his bachelor’s degree in sociology, followed by his MBA.  Brent then entered the United States Air Force as a Captain, serving as a hospital administrator at Holloman AFB in Alamogordo, New Mexico.  He was married to Karen in 1985, and following their discharges, they made their home together in Kansas City, Missouri for the next 40 years.  Brent earned a law degree at the University of Missouri Kansas City, and spent the remainder of his career practicing corporate law as associate general counsel.

 

Although life was not always kind and gentle to him, Brent remained a kind and gentle man.  He learned something about everything, and was always well-read, with a stack of books in progress.  He was so intelligent, and we loved his sharp wit.  His interests varied widely, from vintage comics to the Beatles to Star Trek to the KC Royals.  For as long as his health allowed, he was an avid runner, participating in many local races and finishing the Chicago Marathon in honor of his 50th birthday.  He achieved a lifelong goal of climbing to the summit of Mount Kilimanjaro at age 57.

 

Brent was a lover of animals and cared for any creature that came to his door.  He watched the weather carefully so that he could take good care of the landscape and wildlife surrounding his home.  In his retirement years, our “cat whisperer” rescued five strays and transitioned them to a comfortable indoor life in his home.

 

Brent was part of a large family and spent a lot of his time helping us with whatever we needed.  He was a treasured husband, brother, and father.  He was a loving Pop to his granddaughters, a special “Uncle Bent” to his many nieces and nephews, and a compassionate caregiver to our family’s elders.

 

Brent died on September 13, 2025, holding the hands of his wife and daughter.  He was 69 years old.  He is irreplaceable and unforgettable.

 

Brent is survived by:

His wife, Karen Bertram;

His sister, Melanie Bertram;

His daughter, Summer Davies (Sarah);

His grandchildren, Kate Davies and Caroline Davies; 

His fathers-in-law Jim Siress and Jim Meyers;

His sisters-in-law Kathy Siress, Jeannette Ford, Julie Duncan (Bill), and Wendy Kerkaert (Wayne);

His nieces and nephews Brittany Borton, Jonathan Ford (Stephanie), Joshua Ford (Alexa Wright), Cooper Duncan, Grant Duncan, Brian Muldoon (Walls Trimble), Molly Ryck (Tom), Hannah Kerkaert, Luke Kerkaert (Dani Groff), Matthew Kerkaert, and Grace Kerkaert;

His great-nieces and great-nephews Chelsea Bertram, Caleb Clendenen, River Ford, Melody Ford, Lily Ford, Tommy Ryck, and Cecelia Ryck. Also survived by his dear friends Jim and JoAnn Brady and all those whose life he touched. 

 

Brent was preceded in death by his mother Patricia Bertram, his mothers-in-law Mary Ann Meyers and Ruth Siress, and his nephew Brady Duncan.

 

Brent’s family wishes to thank the caregivers he encountered at St. Luke’s Health System for their excellent care and compassion.   We are so grateful to the St. Luke’s Hospice House team (Romonda, Paige, and most especially Sue Ann) for helping us walk Brent home.We also wish to thank our neighbors Karen and Tim Jennings for their invaluable support.

 

No formal service is planned, and private interment will follow at a later date, in accordance with Brent’s wishes.  For those who wish to honor Brent’s memory, please consider making a donation to the Humane Society, or the animal welfare organization of your choice.

 

He was our loving sherpa – quietly doing the heavy lifting for everyone.

Additional Service:
No Services Planned

Condolences

April J Cluchey Sep 14, 2025

Friend ,Liberty ,Missouri

Dearest Karen, I'm so sorry for the loss of this lovely man. All of my love to you and will pray for your strength in this time. April

Corinne Elliott Sep 14, 2025

friend ,Springfield ,Missouri

Dearest Karen and to Brent’s family and friends, may you receive comfort in knowing many people are praying for you during this time of unimaginable grief.

Susian Brantley-Smith Sep 14, 2025

Friend of family ,Columbia ,Missouri

My deepest condolences on Brent’s passing. May you cherish the good memories. Susan Brantley-Smith

Kathleen Sep 14, 2025

friend ,Salem ,Massachusetts

Sad for his loss but lucky to have known him.

Sarah Yelton Sep 14, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Karen, I just heard the sad news. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Rhonda’s Rowdies Yoga Group Sep 14, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

The Tuesday night yoga group sends their profound sadness at hearing of Brent’s passing. He and Joann were part of our group for many years and he was a joy to be around-his wit was so dry and on point. The world has lost a sweet and gentle man.

Diana and Iver Nore Sep 14, 2025

Friend ,Wrangell ,Alaska

Iver and I are deeply saddened at Brent’s passing. Karen, I know you will be experiencing sometimes crushing waves of grief. No amount of foreknowledge and preparation can prevent it. Know that we are here to listen and come alongside in silence when there are no words. ❤️